Happy Father’s Day!
I wanted to take a moment and wish all the fathers out there a Happy Father’s Day!
While people immediately acknowledge the importance of the father-son relationship, many forget that the father-daughter relationship is equally important.
Daddy is the very first man in our lives, and whether you realize it or not, you will secretly judge and compare every other man in your life to him.
Recently, my sister mentioned how strange it is for us to understand how some men absent themselves from their daughter’s lives, or because their child is a girl, they don’t teach them the same things they would a son.
Our Dad never once thought, “I won’t teach them ‘this or that’ because they are girls. Instead, he encouraged us to try out for “male-dominated” sports as well as the usual ones for girls. He also taught us to think for ourselves, to stand up for what we believe in, speak our minds, and to not take crap from anybody.
My sisters and I learned how to play golf, tennis, baseball, and basketball from my dad. We also learned how to prepare and paint drywall, hammer a nail, fix a clogged sink, catch, gut, and fillet our own fish.
He was this larger than life figure to me. Colorful stories about him running moonshine as a teenager in the back hills of Kentucky were spun at family reunions.
Dad was part of the greatest generation, having fought in WWII as a ball turret gunner. He raced NASCAR in the 50’s, owned thoroughbred racehorses, played poker (before it became a TV spectator sport) and dressed like a member of the original rat pack. He also sang off-key and liked to hold hands with mum in the moonlight.
Hard for any man to match up after all that. Poor hubby. Dad always called him “Meathead.” ::grins:: I still can recall my guy sitting in Dad’s favorite chair soon after they met the first time, and the house going very silent. LOL.
Sadly, Dad passed into shadow almost a decade ago. And although we all miss him still, we know that the things he taught us helped us to become strong and independent women. To not be afraid to say what is on our minds or in our hearts.
To those who still have your fathers, give them a call today and tell them how much they meant to you. I promise it’s a much better present that a tie.
To those who, like me, have memories of their dad, spend a minute or two today and pick up an old photo album and smile. Because I know this to be true: whatsoever, and whomsoever we love in life, lives forever.
If you are a father, cherish your daughters as well as your sons and let them know you care.
Blessings,
Cass
