Seducing Him
I admit it. I adore men. I love the way they move, the mannerisms, inflections in their voice, the way they smell after a shower (or during… :D) and the warmth coming off their skin, the tight cord of muscle when they flex..ahhh…
Such a feast for the senses. But then, most men feel the same way about women. For a skilled player in the art of love, seducing him should be simple. But have you ever seduced, really seduced a man? It can be the most erotic and provocative thing you’ll ever do in life. Certainly something every woman should try at least once or twice.
It can begin with a look. The slightest glance from under your lashes. Or a single touch, a brush of your fingertips down his arm. Or, those more bold, a sensuous whisper in his ear, a teasing caress of your lips against his earlobe, as you say all the naughty, erotic things you’d like to do to him and with him.
Have you seduced, really seduced a man? What was his reaction? And what naughty thing did you say or do to pull him under your spell?
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Cass
August 19th, 2008 at 4:46 pm
There are different ways I’ve seduced G. Royals. Sometimes, it’s just walking by him, stopping long enough with my back arched, my bottom poked back, setting my chest in perfect sillhouette, perhaps with a pouty mouth. Even clothed. I have made him stutter. (one of my more favorite moments.)
Then there are the more salacious times. A satin corset, his favorite color, tied just right. Thigh high stockings with garters and other accoutrement. I walk in and slink around him, swaying my hips. Getting close enough for a good view, but just out of reach. Knowing he’s such a visual man, I love to put on a show for him. His reaction fuels my performance, the hotter I get him, the more I get into it.
IT is a fine thing, to bring your man to that point.:drool:
August 19th, 2008 at 5:31 pm
Strangers In The Night was the No.1 song, and I was on vacation with a girlfriend. We were sitting at the bar in our hotel–the kind of bar that’s built like an island with customers on all four sides, and I accidentally captured the glance of this handsome-enough-to-die-for dude, and just couldn’t let go. I’d never done anything like that before and, to be honest, I was a little embarrassed. But I managed to break the spell and even forgot about him for the space of maybe a whole minute. But then there he was right beside me. He didn’t say a word, and neither did I, he just drew me on to the dance floor, where I proceeded to fall all over his feet (I didn’t have a clue how to dance calypso), as to what happened after that… Well, let’s just say it was a moment in time I’ll never forget. All these years later, I can still see him, and still feel his body next to mine. He was gorgeous, delicious, and absolute putty in my hands.
Christiane
August 19th, 2008 at 7:24 pm
I have never seduced a guy before. I don’t have the self confidence to do that!! So anyone that has kudos to you all.
August 19th, 2008 at 8:02 pm
I was in Mexico by myself, on vacation. I was in the tiny town of Rosarito and was sitting on a bench outside of the Rock ‘n’ Roll Taco. Hot dude and his friend walked by and I heard him say something about a cow (there was one of those papermache, or whatever the heck they’re made out of type cows, in front of the place). I said I really hoped he wasn’t talking about me and laughed, in my best flirty giggle. He came back and said of course not and I offered up my free tequila shooter (don’t normally drink them) coupons to him and his friend. He said only if I shared them with him. How could I refuse?
At first he tried to set me up with his friend who was having his birthday, but the sparks between hot dude and I were no match for friend guy I couldn’t care less about. I had my flirty tone and mood set on high. I can’t tell you what I said or did exactly, but I can tell you it worked. We did end up back at the condo he was staying on a bunch of flat rocks overlooking the beach. The sad part is that I was working the “no glove, no love” angle, but everything else pretty much rocked my world. LOL I think I still have a photos of him and me from that one night of pool playing (really good game to play when you’re flirting), tequila drinking fun.
August 19th, 2008 at 9:21 pm
Sedeuction used to be my middle name but the one I finally married did the seducing. I was so used to being the one in charge that I didn’t really know how to handle him. Luckily for me, he was persistent.
August 19th, 2008 at 10:29 pm
Ooh, ya’ll are wonderfully naughty!
Hey Leigh, you’re gonna have to teach me that move of yours for sure! Woo-haw!
August 19th, 2008 at 11:19 pm
Wore a dress. Whispered in his ear what I was NOT wearing under it–at a time when there was absolutely nothing he could do about it. For several hours.
August 20th, 2008 at 1:01 am
Before I met my hubby, I was a vixen. Not that I’m not now (after 10 years… he is still quite happy/satisfied… regularly…) But, before I met “the one” and had, you know, sense to know when I was being wicked/scandalous… I pulled a stunt! lol
Once, I met this incredibly gorgeous man at work. One of those so-fine-that-you-forget-your-own-name fine men. Stuttering-and-staring sexy. He didn’t seem my type, but since I didn’t have anything to lose (and since I was really just seeing if I could get away with it), I decided to find out what he liked in the ways of smells, colors, and things and befriended him. We hung out all the time - going to movies, dinner, arcades, etc. One night, I planned a “party” at a hotel. He was the only guest. W
hen he came in, there was dinner, music, and me… :) Yes, the night was amazing. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a man so turned on in my life. He was amazed that I put so much work into that night and we ended up dating for more than a year. He nearly stalked me for 5 years afterward. His mother said that he still asks if I am okay whenever they talk (she and I exchange Christmas and birthday cards because she loves me!)… and he still isn’t married! - and this was 11 years ago now! lol
A bit scandalous, but… interesting to say the least! LOL Seducing a man that isn’t going to be your husband one day can turn out bad (see above stalker portion - lol).
However, now… seduction to me is doing the dishes without me having to ask! I’ve gotten easier to deal with in my old age! *grins*
August 20th, 2008 at 1:25 am
but i always loved wearing his shirt and he always love it to .
August 20th, 2008 at 1:23 pm
I think it’s more about what your hubby or man likes. What kind of lingerie and so on. Mine likes stockings and garterbelts. I like to wear those when I really want to be the seducer. But I also make him wait as I go about the house doing little thingsignoring him. The lap dance though is the killer. LOL
August 20th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
Oh no, Christy! Yikes.
You were just too naughty and sexy and wow! Rocked his world. Whew!
Tami, we’re going to have to reeducate you on how to seduce him over again. For the first sexy lesson, see the first post by Leigh. That gal has serious moves! Whew. Her hubby never stood a chance. hee, hee.
Second lesson is MG’s Mexican fling. All I gotta say is Olé, chica!