When I was a teenager, we referred to sex behind the bleachers as ‘gettin’ some. Now I don’t kiss and tell…much, lol, but a lot of gettin’ some went on at my high school in some very public places. Must have been a bunch of randy exhibitionists. Not me, though. I was a good girl. Stop that snickering! I was. I even looked the other way when I saw the sweaty bump and grind going on in some of the parked cars at the high school’s parking lot.
One of my best friends would ask me to act as lookout, because the school narcs would also bust your ass if they caught you gettin’ some.
When I look back, I think of those times as a gift. Why? Not because I am a pervert. Okay, maybe a little. lol. But I think about how rare an opportunity it was to listen in as my friend and her boyfriend of the hour would ‘get some’ in the girl’s locker room, parked car, or under the bleachers. See, as a writer, I want to capture and relay every sense to readers. That goes double for my sex scenes.
Every sigh and groan and moan and quivering whisper. Every shout, yell, or scream of pleasure. So many sounds. The slap of flesh on flesh, the muttered cuss words, and calls out to God. The time I heard my bff’s latest in a string of boyfriends cry out, “Thank you, Jesus!” like seventeen times. He and my bff only dated for about a month, but in a way, I guess that was good experience for him since later I heard he became a minister. :)
I know some men really get turned on by dirty talk. But I’m not sure how many women are into the audio aspect of sex. So my question for the day is this?
Do you like to talk dirty to your man, and does he like it?
